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THERE IS A FORMULA FOR LONGEVITY IN MARRIAGE. |
A marriage date is comparable to a child being born. It has a "personality" number, an "attitude" number and it a purpose - or destiny number. The personality is found from the day of the marriage (1st, 20th, etc.), the "attitude" is determined by adding the month of marriage to the day of marriage (6 (June) + 4 = 10/1) and the purpose or destiny is calculated by adding all the numbers of the marriage date together and reducing those numbers to a single digit.
Analyze your own marriage(s) by determining its/their personality, attitude, and destiny numbers in the paragraphs below. It may be better than you think! :)
I analyze marriage dates for my clients and can offer the primary reason the marriage is working well or not working well, primarily by the destiny and attitude numbers. |
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ANALYZE THE COMPATIBILITY OF YOUR MARRIAGE |
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IMPORTANT: As you analyze your marriage date from the data below, please know that there is no need to identify with all the adjectives associated with your marriage numbers. The summations are cursory at best and meant to offer a little humor along with some enlightenment, when viewed with an open mind. THIS IS NOT A SERIOUS SCIENTIFIC COMPILATION so please don't let it give you even an ounce of distress if one or more of your marriage definitions are not as complimentary as you would like them to be.
The month of your marriage represents the environment the married couple assumes:
P = POSITIVE; N = NEGATIVE
January (1) - P = honorable, private;
N = Withdrawn, guarded
February (2) - P = peaceful, hospitable;
N = stagnant, unsupportive March (3) - P = harmonious, sociable;
N =inhospitable, intolerant April (4) - P= practical, stable;
N = inflexible, boring May (5) - P = active, progressive;
M = unstable, bizarre June (6) - P = family-oriented, humanitarian;
N = parochial, wearisome July (7) - P = placid, dignified;
N = unsociable, dull August (8) - P = supportive, principled;
N = constrained, indulgent September (9) - P = warm, civilized;
N = biased, acquisitive October (1) - P = pleasing, plentiful;
N = changeable, self-serving November (11) - P = stimulating, illuminated;
N = provincial, misguided December (3) - P = care-taking, noble;
N = uninspired, hollow
THE DAY OF YOUR MARRIAGE The day of a marriage represents the "personality" of that marriage. The 31 days of the month have been reduced to a single digit in the following breakdown. Use the "Condensed Plus and Minus Qualities for Marriage" chart below to learn the personality of your marriage. 1st, 10th, 19th, and 28th ----------------------- 1 2nd, 11th, 22nd, and 31st ---------------------- 2 3rd, 12th, 21st, and 30th ----------------------- 3 4th, 13th, 22nd, and 31st ---------------------- 4 5th, 14th, and 23rd ----------------------------- 5 6th, 15th, and 24th ----------------------------- 6 7th, 16th, and 25th ----------------------------- 7 8th, 17th, and 26th ----------------------------- 8 9th, 18th, and 27th ----------------------------- 9 P = POSITIVE; N = NEGATIVE
Personality 1: P = Enterprising, traditional, influential; N = Headstrong, authoritarian, conflicting, egocentric
Personality 3: P = Compatible, cultivated, social, kind; N = Extravagant, opinionated, shallow, indescreet
Personality 5: P = Affable, charming, lively, gracious; N = Impulsive, insatiable, negligent, peculiar, unstable
Personality 6: P = Family/home lovers, moral, stable; N = Malcontent, officious, slavish, biased, negligent
Personality 7: P = Dignified, gifted, learned, peaceful; N = Deceitful, detached, pessimistic, secretive
Personality 8: P = Initiating, preeminent, classy
N = Dishonest, egotistical, narrow-minded, repressive
Personality 9: P = Benevolent, cultured, high-minded; N = Demanding, grasping, provincial, superficial
THE "ATTITUDE" OF YOUR MARRIAGE
The Attitude of a marriage represents exactly that -- the Attitude. Add the month of your marriage to the day of your marriage and reduce to a single digit. June 29 = 6 + 2+9 = 17 and 1+7 = 8 P = Positive; N = Negative
Attitude 1: P = Independent, self-reliant, self-assured; N = Non-communicative, controlling, or submissive
Attitude 2: P = Caring, sharing, nurturing, considerate; N = Needy, over-sensitive, smothering, indecisive
Attitude 3: P = Optimistic, fun-loving, social, gracious; N = Critical, super fastidious, over-indulgent, wasteful
Attitude 4: P = Industrious, stable, secure, dutiful
N = Neurotic, obstinate, indifferent, lazy, slow
Attitude 5: P = Energetic, social, progressive, stylish; N = Arbitrary, careless, frivilous, over-indulgent, static
Attitude 6: P = Family/service-bound, solid, ethical; N = Argumentative, fearful, dependent, intolerant
Atittude 7: P = Astute, perceptive, calm, competent; N = Aloof, keeping secrets, distrustful, odd
Attitude 8: P = Organized, confident, principled, loyal; N = Avaricious, biased, combative, thoughtless, rigid
Attitude 9: P = Affectionate, devoted, selfless, moral; N = Materialistic, superficial, moody,volatile, evasive
Attitude 11: P= Doting, idealistic, spiritual, poised
N = Fanatic, hysterical, impractical, myopic
THE DESTINY OF YOUR MARRIAGE
The "Destiny" or "purpose" number of your marriage is the most significant of all. It represents the course the marriage will take. Calculate the destiny number by adding the month, day, and year of your marriage and reducing it to a single digit, as follows: Example Marriage Date: November 22, 1967 1+1 (November) + 2+2 (Day) + 1+9+6+7 = 29 and 2+9 = 11 [You can read the definition for the Number 11 and the Number 2 for this Marriage Destiny to determine which fits with your 11 Destiny marriage best. The 11 can be reduced to 2 (1+1=2), but the marriage is best served if it is lived as the 11. If your marriage date reduces to number 22, you can also read the definition for Number 4 (2+2=4). If the marriage reduces to the Number 22, it is best served if lived as the 22.] P = POSITIVE; N = NEGATIVE
Destiny 1: P = Independent, enterprising, private, traditional, innovative, leaders; N = Obstinate, non-communicative, separate lives, doleful Destiny 3: P = Fun-loving, adventurous, grand host/hostess, stylish, friendly, doers; N = Childish, over-indulgent, extravagant, touchy, bellicose
Destiny 5: P = Energetic, active, spontaneous, adventurous, versatile, trend-setters; N = Impatient, erratic, superficial, unstable, rash, loose Destiy 6: P = Home/family lovers, community servers, responsible, loyal, moral; N = Petulant, opinionated, martyr-like, long-suffering, insipid Destiny 7: P = Private, dignified, enlightened, peaceful, astute, mystical, unique; N = Secretive, isolating, unfaithful, austere, eccentric
Destiny 8: P = Prosperous, honorable, influential, organized, commanding, givers; N = Combative, materialistic, insular, rules-regulated, sneaky Destiny 9: P = Compatible, moderate, humble, hospitable, cordial, decent, gracious; N = Narrow-minded, pretentious, contrary, greedy, disloyal Destiny 11/2: P = Inspiring, progressive, visionary, influential, devout, saintly; N = Deceptive, obsessed, opinionated, fanatical, fearful Destiny 22/4: P = Benevolent, dynamic, enlightened, humanitarian, experts; N = Zealous, manipulative, dishonest, biased, anti-social |
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FAMOUS MARRIED COUPLES' COMPATIBILITY CHART. |
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P = Personality, A = Attitude, D = Destiny
Paul Newman/JoAnne Woodward Marriage Date: February 2, 1958 Personality: 2 Attitude: 4 Destiny: 9
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 9 P - Nurturing, A - Industrious, D - Humanitarian, Socially Classy
Dennis Weaver/Gerry Weaver Marriage Date: October 20, 1945 Personality: 2 Attitude: 3 Destiny: 5
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 9
P - Nurturing, A - Adventuresome, D - Progressive, Energetic and Active Michael Douglas/Catherine Zeta-Jones Marriage Date: November 18, 2000 Personality: 9 Attitude: 11 Destiny: 3
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: +/-6
P - Classy, volatile, A - High-minded, D- Dedicated, Artistic/Social Darlings Will Smith/Jada Pinkett
Marriage Date: December 31, 1997 Personality: 4 Attitude: 7 Destiny: 6
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 7
P - Industrious, loyal, A - Private/secrets, D - Family-oriented, responsible
Marriage Date: May 14, 1996 Personality: 5 Attitude: 1 Destiny: 8 Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 7
P - Active, hot-tempers, A - Independent, D - Prospous, principled Patrick Swayze/Lisa Niemi Marriage Date: June 12, 1975 Personality: 3 Attitude: 9 Destiny: 4
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 8
P - Fun-loving, dedicated; A - Composed, humanitarian, D - Industrious, loyal
Marriage Date: March 10, 1992 Personality: 1 Attitude: 4 Destiny: 7
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: +/-6 P - Independent, innovative; A - Loyal, industrious, D - Private, secret keepers, learned John Travolta/Kelly Preston Marriage Date: September 5, 1991 Personality: 5 Attitude: 5 Destiny: 7
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 4 P - Energetic/Active, A - Trendsetters/volatile, D - Separate lives, broad-minded, dignified Bruce Springsteen/Patty Smith
Marriage Date: June 8, 1991 Personality: 8 Attitude: 5 Destiny: 7
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 6
P - Quality citizens; Attitude - Energetic/active, D - Private, secret keepers, broad-minded
Pres. Barack Obama/First Lady Michelle Obama Marriage Date: October 3, 1992 Personality: 3 Attitude: 4 Destiny: 7
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 7 P - Social, disciplined, A - Hard-working, loyal, D - Private, dignified, learnedPres. George W. Bush/Laura Bush Marriage Date: November 5, 1977 Personality: 5 Attitude: 7 Destiny: 6
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 7
P - Active, progressive; A - Bookish, possibly non-commuicative, D - Family and service-oriented, humanitarian Pres. Bill Clinton/Sec. Hillary Clinton Marriage Date: October 11, 1977 Personality: 11 Attitude: 3 Destiny: 11
Compatibility on a Scale of 1 to 10: 8 P - Affectionate, inspired, A - Social, disciplined, D - Visionary, conciliatory, peace leaders INTERESTING ASIDE: These 12 marriages with longevity contained 14 female-oriented (nurturing) numbers and 22 male-oriented (action, drive) numbers. This would seem to indicate, albeit non-scientific, that male energy makes a success-driven marriage more involved in outside activities and social engagements and less home-oriented activities. Regardless, there was only one marriage that had male-oriented numbers in all three categories and it had the lowest compatibility rating. It would seem, therefore, that having at least one category as female-oriented, helped to combine the independent and individualistic qualities with sharing and caring qualities to sustain these marriages for many years. |
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INTERESTING AND FUN QUOTES ABOUT MARRIAGE |
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FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO WANT A GOOD LAUGH OR TWO AND A FEW YOU-GOT-THAT-RIGHT! MOMENTS, TOO, READ THESE QUOTES: "Give 90% and expect only 10% back. Dennis was the cool, calm, devoted, sweet Gemini with . . . to my Cancer sun and he treated me like a queen. We gave each other space but he included me in everything he did. When he ran out of gifts, he wrote me songs." Gerry Weaver (wife of Dennis Weaver) when asked how her marriage of 61 years worked so well. Never feel remorse for what you have thought about your wife; she has thought much worse things about you. ~Jean Rostand, Le Mariage, 1927 Spouse: someone who'll stand by you through all the trouble you wouldn't have had if you'd stayed single. ~Author Unknown The difficulty with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but must live with a character. ~Peter Devries What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility. ~George Levinger The husband who doesn't tell his wife everything probably reasons that what she doesn't know won't hurt him. ~Leo J. Burke A man may be a fool and not know it, but not if he is married. ~H.L. Mencken Marriage is nature's way of ensuring that a woman picks up some mothering experience before she has her first child. ~Robert Brault Any married man should forget his mistakes - no use two people remembering the same thing. ~Duane Dewel Love is one long sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock. ~Author Unknown An ideal wife is any woman married to an ideal husband. Booth Tarkington It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. Friedrich Nietzsche All young women begin by believing they can change and reform the men they marry. They can't. George Bernard Shaw Marriage is our last best chance to grow up. Joseph Barth My husband and I have never considered divorce... murder sometimes, but never divorce. Joyce Brothers Only two things are necessary to keep one's wife happy. One is to let her think she is having her own way, the other, to let her have it. Lyndon B. Johnson A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Mignon McLaughlin I first learned the concepts of non-violence in my marriage. Mohandas K. Gandhi Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last. Simone Signoret My advice to you is to get married. If you find a good wife, you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher. Socrates One advantage of marriage is that, when you fall out of love with him or he falls out of love with you, it keeps you together until you fall in again. ~Judith Viorst |
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